Hi, I’m Dechen.

Welcome to the online home for my work.

I lead transformative relational practice, primarily through in-person intensives. I have found this kind of group work can be a potent catalyst for insight and growth at the personal, interpersonal, transpersonal, communal, and societal levels (among others).  

I offer 1:1 work tailored to help you lean into your growth edges.  

I also perform as a singer, songwriter, and musician.

I am open to receiving inquiries for 1:1 work, and/or leading events in your community.

I look forward to learning how our paths might weave together.

Current Research Interests

I am actively experimenting with devotional friendship, chosen family, and other novel forms to seed cultural change and build robust networks of intimacy and resource sharing.
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Futures of The Masculine + Feminine

Many of my collaborative crews are consciously engaging the relationship between the masculine and feminine, asking: How do we do this dance beautifully? I had an event on the topic; more coming soon.

As a helping professional, I remain critical of our current system and am exploring radical, alternative pathways to care and flourishing within our communities.
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